5 Ways Girls Can Feel Committed in a Relationship
Being in love is lovely, and the start of a relationship is a perfect time for a couple. You are head over heels for each other, often known as the honeymoon period. After about six months, things can change, and girls will begin to think about the relationship’s future.
Guys should take note; commitment is a big thing for us girls. We need to feel like the relationship is going somewhere and that we are with the right guy. When long-term relationships seem to be moving slowly, we need some way to know that you are in it for the long term. Here are five ways to know you are the right guy for us.
#1) An extraordinary gift
Once we have been in a relationship for a while, our heads will start filling with thoughts of getting engaged. Some girls might not want that commitment, but we will likely begin to drop hints. If some of our friends start to get engaged, this will encourage us also to want to get married.
It might be time to buy a diamond eternity ring to show the world how much you love us. A beautiful necklace or some fancy earrings will make us smile. You could even purchase a commitment ring to show us you love us and will consider proposing.
#2) Moving in
If we have been in a relationship for a while, then moving in with us is the perfect way to show you are committed to the relationship. It could be letting a property together or buying it to show us you see a future together. Moving in together does have some positives, if we both work long hours, sometimes arranging a date for the evening is too much work. However, if we live together, we can go home and unwind.
Moving in together for the first time can show couples if they are meant to be. It can cause more arguments over paying bills and spending more time together. If you don’t want to get a place, you could give us a key to your home. It is an excellent way to allow us into your life without going the whole way.
#3) Buying a pet
A pet is a great way to show commitment to the relationship. It will bring many memories and joy for us both for the years to come. Some people say it’s the first chance to experience the demands of having a child. You have to clean up after them, feed them, ensure they have the proper training to keep them stimulated and well-behaved, and keep them safe using products such as invisible fencing for dogs or muzzles and take them for walks, which is a lot of responsibility.
If you don’t have time for a dog or cat, they can be hard work; you could get us a small pet as a token of your love. A hamster, fish, or rabbit will be less work but will show us you plan to stick around for a while.
#4) Booking a holiday
Another way to show commitment is by booking a holiday for us both. If it’s our first trip away together, booking somewhere closer to home may be suitable.
It’s a perfect time to be romantic, and it will give us both a chance to visit somewhere new. It’s lovely making memories together that we can reflect on for years. For somewhere great, we would love to be taken to somewhere exciting like Paris or New York!
5. Invited to a family occasion
Spending time with your family and friends is an excellent way for us to know you are committed to us. Introducing us to your friends is a big step, as it means you feel happy enough to show us off and let us into that part of your life.
But meeting the family is a great way to show us you’re serious about commitment. If you introduce us to meet your mum and dad, it shows you want a future with us. Inviting us to a family event is also a good way of showing us you are serious, as we will meet your extended family. It would also be great if you came along as our plus one to a wedding or christening, as this means you want to meet our friends and family.
If you can’t show any of these commitments, it may be time to reconsider if you see the relationship going anywhere. It doesn’t have to be a ring (yet), but one of the above shows us that the relationship is going somewhere. Here are 50 more ways to show commitment to us.
He is interested in learning more about feeling committed in a relationship. Be sure to read Red Flags: How to Know He’s Playing Games with You; how do you spot a guy who will never commit? How do you force him to show his cards?
