If you and your boyfriend broke up recently, but after being apart for a while, you can’t get over him, you might be thinking about getting him back. Your girlfriends might tell you that you are mad – you’ve broken up, so move on, but you’re not. Trust us on this, thousands of couples break up and then get back together after some time has passed.
That being said, that doesn’t mean that you will definitely be able to get your boyfriend back – love is a two-way thing, remember. It’s not definite that you can win him back, but you can try.
If you are still in love with your ex-boyfriend after breaking up a few weeks ago, here’s a few things that you can try to get him back:
Think about what went wrong
The first thing that you need to do, if you want to get your ex back is think about what went wrong. Think back through your relationship, can you pinpoint a time when things started to change between you? Can you remember what happened and why things started to change?
Once you have worked out what caused problems to occur in your relationship, you can then start thinking about how you could change things. Consider what you could do to ensure that these problems didn’t reoccur. Think about how you could both change to make your relationship more successful.
Who broke up with who is important
You need to realize that who broke up with who is important. If you broke up with him, he is most probably still feeling hurt. If he broke up with you, there was probably a reason for it.
If you broke up with him, he will want you to show him that you are sorry, and that life just isn’t the same without him. If he broke up with you, you will need to show him what an idiot he was for breaking up with you.
Make contact with him
Once you have worked out what went wrong in your relationship and know how to stop it from happening again, get back in touch with your ex. Just ask if he fancies meeting you for dinner or a drink and spend some quality time together.
Don’t mention that you want him back the first time you meet up, spend some time getting to know each other again. Then, if you notice that the old chemistry is still there, that’s when you should make your move.
You might be crazy in love with your ex, but remember that doesn’t mean he is still in love with you. If he is, that's fantastic, but you should be prepared for the fact that he may have moved on.
However, that shouldn’t prevent you from trying to win him back, follow the tips in this guide, and you could have your man back within a couple of weeks.